Re: Backseat Coaching in the QT? Okay or Not?

by InaB 31/07/13, 12:06 pm

And thankfully, I have been (and will be) field marshall (not in QTs but regular season). And yes, if they are not the team coach, manager or assistant coach, I can kindly ask them to move to the parent side of the field. (Maybe a cupcake would lure them away.)

by tornado11 31/07/13, 01:46 pm

BUNDESLIGA wrote:On the contrary, Juergen klinsman seems to be active on the the sidelines barking out instructions at points in the game. At least in the gold cup he seemed to be more animated on the sidelines. Good coaches can communicate , and at the youth levels, sometimes need to communicate to players while on the field. It's a fine line between constructive leadership or constant yelling.

Klinnsman was likely shouting at the refs..(hence the ejection)...other than doing exactly what I suggested in an earlier post he is NOT constantly yelling and screaming at his players...nor is he trying to play the game for them.

by Guest 31/07/13, 01:49 pm

tornado11 wrote:
BUNDESLIGA wrote:On the contrary, Juergen klinsman seems to be active on the the sidelines barking out instructions at points in the game. At least in the gold cup he seemed to be more animated on the sidelines. Good coaches can communicate , and at the youth levels, sometimes need to communicate to players while on the field. It's a fine line between constructive leadership or constant yelling.

Klinnsman was likely shouting at the refs..(hence the ejection)...other than doing exactly what I suggested in an earlier post he is NOT constantly yelling and screaming at his players...nor is he trying to play the game for them.

Okay!

by tornado11 31/07/13, 02:39 pm

"I always say that soccer is for playing so you must always try to be happy. I don't understand a coach who is always angry, jumping around and screaming. If you want to coach a team and make them happy you can't be yelling at them all the time"

Vicente De Bosque...interviewed by EUFA technical director Andy Roxburgh and reproduced in an article in the July/August 2012 edition of 'Soccer Journal'.....

If you don't know who Vicente Del Bosque is then you know NOTHING about this sport....and, chances are your 'interest' in soccer starts and ends with your daughters involvement.

by soccersounder 31/07/13, 02:55 pm

tornado11 wrote:"I always say that soccer is for playing so you must always try to be happy. I don't understand a coach who is always angry, jumping around and screaming. If you want to coach a team and make them happy you can't be yelling at them all the time"

Vicente De Bosque...interviewed by EUFA technical director Andy Roxburgh and reproduced in an article in the July/August 2012 edition of 'Soccer Journal'.....

If you don't know who Vicente Del Bosque is then you know NOTHING about this sport....and, chances are your 'interest' in soccer starts and ends with your daughters involvement.

Settle down T-11.....

For one, what is wrong with a person's "soccer passion" starting and stopping with their kid??????

Secondly, my soccer life did start with my DD. And now I have Reffed for 5 years, Have favorite teams all over the world, DVR 3 or more games weekly from around the world, I just can't get enough of it, AND I have no idea who Vicente Del Bosque is....

And here I thought I was a real soccer fan Sad

by Guest 31/07/13, 03:08 pm

soccersounder wrote:
tornado11 wrote:"I always say that soccer is for playing so you must always try to be happy. I don't understand a coach who is always angry, jumping around and screaming. If you want to coach a team and make them happy you can't be yelling at them all the time"

Vicente De Bosque...interviewed by EUFA technical director Andy Roxburgh and reproduced in an article in the July/August 2012 edition of 'Soccer Journal'.....

If you don't know who Vicente Del Bosque is then you know NOTHING about this sport....and, chances are your 'interest' in soccer starts and ends with your daughters involvement.

Settle down T-11.....

For one, what is wrong with a person's "soccer passion" starting and stopping with their kid??????

Secondly, my soccer life did start with my DD. And now I have Reffed for 5 years, Have favorite teams all over the world, DVR 3 or more games weekly from around the world, I just can't get enough of it, AND I have no idea who Vicente Del Bosque is....

And here I thought I was a real soccer fan

FYI,

Vicente del Bosque González, 1st Marquis of Del Bosque is a former Spanish footballer who is currently the manager of the Spanish national football team.

by Guest 31/07/13, 03:12 pm

tornado11 wrote:"I always say that soccer is for playing so you must always try to be happy. I don't understand a coach who is always angry, jumping around and screaming. If you want to coach a team and make them happy you can't be yelling at them all the time"

Vicente De Bosque...interviewed by EUFA technical director Andy Roxburgh and reproduced in an article in the July/August 2012 edition of 'Soccer Journal'.....

If you don't know who Vicente Del Bosque is then you know NOTHING about this sport....and, chances are your 'interest' in soccer starts and ends with your daughters involvement.

BUNDESLIGA wrote:
It's a fine line between constructive leadership or constant yelling.

by Moe 31/07/13, 03:12 pm

tornado11 wrote:"I always say that soccer is for playing so you must always try to be happy. I don't understand a coach who is always angry, jumping around and screaming. If you want to coach a team and make them happy you can't be yelling at them all the time"

Vicente De Bosque...interviewed by EUFA technical director Andy Roxburgh and reproduced in an article in the July/August 2012 edition of 'Soccer Journal'.....

If you don't know who Vicente Del Bosque is then you know NOTHING about this sport....and, chances are your 'interest' in soccer starts and ends with your daughters involvement.

Yeah he's that dude that's in Pulp fiction right?
Or fantasy island.....I get'em mixed up

by txtransplant 31/07/13, 03:24 pm

soccersounder wrote:
tornado11 wrote:"I always say that soccer is for playing so you must always try to be happy. I don't understand a coach who is always angry, jumping around and screaming. If you want to coach a team and make them happy you can't be yelling at them all the time"

Vicente De Bosque...interviewed by EUFA technical director Andy Roxburgh and reproduced in an article in the July/August 2012 edition of 'Soccer Journal'.....

If you don't know who Vicente Del Bosque is then you know NOTHING about this sport....and, chances are your 'interest' in soccer starts and ends with your daughters involvement.

Settle down T-11.....

For one, what is wrong with a person's "soccer passion" starting and stopping with their kid??????

Secondly, my soccer life did start with my DD. And now I have Reffed for 5 years, Have favorite teams all over the world, DVR 3 or more games weekly from around the world, I just can't get enough of it, AND I have no idea who Vicente Del Bosque is....

And here I thought I was a real soccer fan

You're not alone Sounder. I had to google Vicente Del Bosque since I had no idea who he was and I used to listen to the NASL games on the radio because they weren't broadcasted on television. Guess that still means I know nothing about the game and am not a real fan.

Will banishment from txsoccer.net soon follow?!??! affraid

by soccerfreaky 31/07/13, 03:26 pm

tornado11 wrote:If you don't know who Vicente Del Bosque is then you know NOTHING about this sport....and, chances are your 'interest' in soccer starts and ends with your daughters involvement.

I'm soccerfreaky! Vincente del Who!? lol!

by Guest 31/07/13, 03:31 pm

I don't know who Vicente Del Bosque is, but I do know who Iraj Danaeifard is.

by bigtex75081 31/07/13, 03:34 pm

I'm so awesome that I'm rockin' my Vicente Del Bosque underoos right now. That's how awesome I am!

You may be wondering, "Who cares if you're wearing adult-size Vicente Del Bosque underoos?" Well both me and Vicente Del Bosque do!!! So you can stick your nasty sarcasm where the sun doesn't shine!

Now you may be thinking, "So what if you are wearing Vicente Del Bosque underoos, what does that mean?" It means I'm awesome and all-knowing and you're not!!!

by Moe 31/07/13, 03:37 pm

Yeah but where'd you gettem?

by Guest 31/07/13, 03:41 pm

Moe wrote:Yeah but where'd you gettem?

Vicente del Bosque González fan club@iamsosexyithurts.com

by txtransplant 31/07/13, 03:46 pm

thatwasweird wrote:but I do know who Iraj Danaeifard is.

Me too!! Tulsa Roughnecks, baby!! cheers

by Guest 31/07/13, 03:48 pm

txtransplant wrote:
thatwasweird wrote:but I do know who Iraj Danaeifard is.

Me too!! Tulsa Roughnecks, baby!!

Iraj Danaeifard is a retired Iranian football player.

by txtransplant 31/07/13, 03:51 pm

BUNDESLIGA wrote:
txtransplant wrote:
thatwasweird wrote:but I do know who Iraj Danaeifard is.

Me too!! Tulsa Roughnecks, baby!!

Iraj Danaeifard is a retired Iranian football player.

Who played with the Tulsa Roughnecks. Actually have a picture with him from when I was about ten or so. He used to have a soccer shop in Tulsa before the NASL folded and he retired.

by Guest 31/07/13, 03:52 pm

txtransplant wrote:
BUNDESLIGA wrote:
txtransplant wrote:
thatwasweird wrote:but I do know who Iraj Danaeifard is.

Me too!! Tulsa Roughnecks, baby!!

Iraj Danaeifard is a retired Iranian football player.

Who played with the Tulsa Roughnecks. Actually have a picture with him from when I was about ten or so. He used to have a soccer shop in Tulsa before the NASL folded and he retired.

Damm your better than google!

by txtransplant 31/07/13, 04:01 pm

I grew up in Broken Arrow where soccer really took off in the 70s. So at the end of season awards presentations (yes, this was before the advent of classic leagues in Oklahoma) players from the Tulsa Roughnecks would come and hand out the hardware and you always had your picture taken with them. They also did clinics, had a luncheon once a month where you could go eat with them and sometimes they'd just come out and wander the soccer complex watching games.

They were our idols. Smile

ETA: But I still don't know who Vicente de Bosque is. LOL

by Guest 31/07/13, 04:24 pm

txtransplant wrote:I grew up in Broken Arrow where soccer really took off in the 70s. So at the end of season awards presentations (yes, this was before the advent of classic leagues in Oklahoma) players from the Tulsa Roughnecks would come and hand out the hardware and you always had your picture taken with them. They also did clinics, had a luncheon once a month where you could go eat with them and sometimes they'd just come out and wander the soccer complex watching games.

They were our idols.

ETA: But I still don't know who Vicente de Bosque is. LOL

Iraj Danaeifard...Charlie Mitchell...Green Country Soccer...Skelly Stadium...Ahhh the good old days. The Roughnecks had cheerleaders too!

by txtransplant 31/07/13, 05:04 pm

thatwasweird wrote:
txtransplant wrote:I grew up in Broken Arrow where soccer really took off in the 70s. So at the end of season awards presentations (yes, this was before the advent of classic leagues in Oklahoma) players from the Tulsa Roughnecks would come and hand out the hardware and you always had your picture taken with them. They also did clinics, had a luncheon once a month where you could go eat with them and sometimes they'd just come out and wander the soccer complex watching games.

They were our idols.

ETA: But I still don't know who Vicente de Bosque is. LOL

Iraj Danaeifard...Charlie Mitchell...Green Country Soccer...Skelly Stadium...Ahhh the good old days. The Roughnecks had cheerleaders too!

Back when they spelled Iraj's name Danaifar. lol

Heh. At least I won't be alone if Admin starts kicking out all the Okies. Wink

by Moe 31/07/13, 05:54 pm

BUNDESLIGA wrote:
txtransplant wrote:
thatwasweird wrote:but I do know who Iraj Danaeifard is.

Me too!! Tulsa Roughnecks, baby!!

Iraj Danaeifard is a retired Iranian football player.

The "de plane....de plane" dude played soccer in Iran?
Man you need to be on a game show or something.

by Hook It 31/07/13, 08:23 pm

bigtex75081 wrote:
tornado11 wrote:
bigtex75081 wrote:
.....I'm unsure about this "Backseat Coaching" issue. I actually like that the club's leadership was there to support the girls....... Maybe they felt that having extra support was in the best interest of the team.
...but they weren't 'supporting' the girls...they were yelling and screaming at them apparently.....just stfu and let the girls play the game...club soccer at it's worst...
Ironically enough though, the portion of the fees that we pay that goes to the clubs, it covers the costs of these sweet services.

The context of each situation can be difficult... I do like the coach to be on board with whatever changes that come to the normal routine. If they really cared, they would do these visits during a practice or scrimmage were the girls are the most open to learning and you can take the proper time to coach a situation....

by JustaSport 31/07/13, 09:29 pm

If a coach - no matter how "advanced" - shows up to a game in which he knows none of the players and has never worked with them in any capacity, it's the recipe for disaster should he attempt to take over. Having written that, I could maybe understand a single individual (such as the DOC) getting involved in things like pre-game pep talks, half-time observations, or providing general input to the actual coach. But numerous coaches yelling instruction to a bunch of girls who don't even recognize their voices? Bad idea. It can't possibly be productive.

by tornado11 01/08/13, 06:24 am

"Even at the highest level it should be fun, if it's not fun, it's not worthwhile to play or to coach"

Pia Sundage. (is your daughter having fun?)

"As a teenager I was fortunate enough to play for coaches who gave me the freedom to enjoy the game, to have fun with the game, to learn the game"

Megan Rapino. USA women's national team.

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